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Friday, September 11, 2015

Making the most of downtime in the meantime...


Today is the first day of school.

Well, let me amend that statement: It’s the first day of school for almost everybody.

This morning, I laid in my bed, listening to the sounds of my housemates getting ready—getting ready for their first day of school.  I closed my eyes and rolled over with mixed feelings about not having to get up yet.

Now, a couple hours later, the house is quiet.  And I hear the high-pitched sounds of excitement from the kids on campus who are kicking off their new school year.  Drifting through the windows they break up the quiet and serve as the soundtrack for reflection.

On Monday, we were given our placements for the upcoming school year.  I’ll be working in the Psychico Elementary School here, helping in the various English classes across grades 1st through 6th.  I waited to find out more from the school’s coordinators about official start dates and specific duties and etc.—and as I kept waiting to hear, my waiting turned to waiting anxiously.  Eventually, we learned that we wouldn’t officially be starting at our school until Monday, September 14th, and were told to enjoy the downtime in the meantime.

Which is nice—it really is.  The problem with downtime in the meantime is that I have a hard time making the most of every moment of time when its downtime I don’t feel like I should be having in a meantime that separates me from the start time of a new, exciting, pretty significant time in my life.

But who has the time to listen to these silly complaints about having free time??

Soon enough I’ll be busy enough that these moments of downtime in the meantime will seem a distant memory, one I’ll long to return to.  It’s a lesson I didn’t think I’d have to learn, and one I didn’t think I’d struggle with so much: making the most of your time here means taking and accepting and living every moment you are given, even when its not quite in the form or duration you were expecting—even when it’s unexpected downtime in the meantime.

For in this time, I’ve been able to read, write, think, walk, run, sleep, rest, dream, anticipate, live, enjoy (for the most part). At least, I’m learning to. 

Maybe making the most of every moment doesn’t look exactly like I thought it did.  It’s not just about keeping your eyes open against the glare of the sun and pushing your legs to climb one more set of stairs to see the Acropolis.  It’s not just about trying that new dish, the ingredients of which are shrouded in mystery.  It’s not just about saying “Kalimera” even if you’re not completely confident in your pronunciation or the response you’ll get.  Sure, all of those moments are examples of ones you should seek to capture and capitalize when you’re making the most of every moment, but they’re not the only ones. 

Because making the most of every moment also means learning to be content with where you are, when you are there, for however long you are there, regardless of the circumstances in which you are there.  It means picking up a book and reading instead of scrolling numbly, endlessly through Facebook.  It means turning your mindless thoughts and wrestling into words and putting them on paper (or Word) to sort out.  It means talking to your neighbor, making a new friend.  It means going for a walk, a run that takes you beyond the walls of what you know—it means taking just one more step outside the walls of your comfort zone, whatever that may look like, to explore, to breathe, to live.

It means making the most of downtime in the meantime…


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